Step-Up Program
Step-Up believes that respect is the heart of all healthy family relationships. Step-Up's goal is to stop youth violence toward family members and move from abuse to respect.
Violent behavior includes:
- Threats
- Intimidation
- Property destruction
- Degrading language
- Physical violence
The program teaches how to resolve conflict and handle parent–teen problems without abuse or violence. Parents or caregivers and youth learn together in a group setting with other families.
Families learn these skills in Step-Up:
- Non-threatening behavior
- Being trustworthy
- Communicating respectfully
- Problem solving
- Being accountable to the family
- Choosing to stay non-violent
What we do
We are part of the Family Intervention and Restorative Services (FIRS) team.
Our services include:
- Step-Up skills-based and restorative practice groups
Together, parents and teens learn and practice skills for respectful communication and problem solving in 3 groups:- Teens and parents both come to group once a week for 90 minutes.
- Teens work in a youth group and learn skills to prevent the use of violent behavior and gain understanding about violence, abuse and power vs. respect, trust and safety in family relationships.
- Parents work in a parent group where they learn safety planning and parenting skills to support their youth.
- In parent/teen group, families learn a respectful family model for addressing conflict together.
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Family violence assessments
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Safety planning
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Community education about adolescent domestic violence with family members
The Step-Up program is designed to help parents and teenagers address their own emotions, and then it inspires you to translate your discoveries and growth into walking hand in hand with your teenager.
Who can use the program
You may self-refer your family to this program by contacting us. You can also be referred by:
- Community agencies, counselors, schools or other helping professionals
- Juvenile Court staff or programs, including Family Intervention and Restorative Services (FIRS), probation counselors, judges, At-Risk-Youth program, Family Court, attorneys, and other programs serving youth
- Police officers responding to calls for help when a youth is violent in the home.
Parents and caregivers attending Step-Up have included:
- Step-parents
- Grandparents
- Aunts and uncles
- Foster and adoptive parents
- Adult siblings or family friends who have been in a caregiver role
Tips to encourage your teen to attend Step-Up
- Tell your teen about the ARY Petition and give the option of not filing an ARY if they participate in Step-Up .
- Ask your teen to “try it out” by coming to 2 or 3 sessions to see how it is. Youth often find out that it is helpful and want to continue.
- Let your teen know that going to Step-Up will help prevent a call to the police. For teens who are concerned about police intervention, this can be a motivation to attend.
After just starting the program I’m remembering what my new friends in the group have said about themselves and realize that I can turn around. I’ve been thinking more before acting. This is truly an amazing place to go to and I feel free there.
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